Infidelity: A Survival Guide
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By: Don-David Lusterman
Format: Paperback
From: New Harbinger Publications,U.S.
Pub. Date: May 1998
From: New Harbinger Publications,U.S.
Pub. Date: May 1998
Product Details:
Catalog: Book
Release Date: 1998-06-12
Media: Paperback
Number Of Pages: 207
Ean: 9781572240872
Isbn: 1572240873
Catalog: Book
Release Date: 1998-06-12
Media: Paperback
Number Of Pages: 207
Ean: 9781572240872
Isbn: 1572240873
ABOUT THE BOOK
EDITORIAL REVIEW
Dr Don-David Lusterman presents his model of intervention in the case of infidelity that can enable both partners to move beyond the shock discovery to reassess their marriage and evaluate its potential for change.
USER REVIEWS
"I am glad I took the time to read this book.
So much of it made sense, Allowed me to feel that the feelings I had were very normal, and helped us as a couple to address some of the issues.
Has been a useful tool.
"
~ Written on 2008-08-18
So much of it made sense, Allowed me to feel that the feelings I had were very normal, and helped us as a couple to address some of the issues.
Has been a useful tool.
"
~ Written on 2008-08-18
"If you REALLY love your partner do NOT cheat.
If you fancy a fling - one-night-stand or an AFFAIR.
Think again.
Consider the feelings of your partner and your children.
Lust is NOT better than true-love.
That is the message of this book.
"
~ Written on 2007-06-03
If you fancy a fling - one-night-stand or an AFFAIR.
Think again.
Consider the feelings of your partner and your children.
Lust is NOT better than true-love.
That is the message of this book.
"
~ Written on 2007-06-03
"One reader called this a lifeboat in a sea of despair and I bought this book on that recommendation. How true it was! This book was SO helpful to me as I struggled with the fall out of my husband's affair. It is readable, useful for both the offending partner and the betrayed partner (we got him a copy of his own) and it probably did more to help us than 11 weeks of marriage counselling. It is a good first port of call in a sea of confusion and despair.
Read my other reviews for other books that I also found helpful in trying to deal with damage an affair causes to all involved. "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass is especially useful if the affair is a work place affair and/or if (like me) you need more help with recovery than this book alone can offer."
~ Written on 2007-05-17
Read my other reviews for other books that I also found helpful in trying to deal with damage an affair causes to all involved. "Not Just Friends" by Shirley Glass is especially useful if the affair is a work place affair and/or if (like me) you need more help with recovery than this book alone can offer."
~ Written on 2007-05-17
"After recently discovering my husbands infidelity i felt completely lost, to blame and like my life had fallen apart. I ordered this book in desparation, hoping that it would give me some answers as to why he was unfaithful.
The book was non-judgemental and helped me to look at our life and work out where there may have been problems in our life. I was shocked at how many times it referenced exactly what i was feeling, it was like the author knew me.
It also helped me to understand that none of what was happening to me was my fault. My husband and i are trying to work at our marriage now and i am sure i will refer back to the book many times during our long road to recovery. Thank you to the author for giving me some insight into this painful chapter in my life."
~ Written on 2005-11-24
The book was non-judgemental and helped me to look at our life and work out where there may have been problems in our life. I was shocked at how many times it referenced exactly what i was feeling, it was like the author knew me.
It also helped me to understand that none of what was happening to me was my fault. My husband and i are trying to work at our marriage now and i am sure i will refer back to the book many times during our long road to recovery. Thank you to the author for giving me some insight into this painful chapter in my life."
~ Written on 2005-11-24
"I am the adult child of a couple suffering from infidelity and I bought this book to give me some more insight. I read it from cover to cover in 3 days.
It's a great book, with clear, concise chapters covering a range of issues including types of infidelity and the motivations behind them, ways to deal with the emotional fallout, and ways to move forward. It provides practical, non-judgmental, evidence-based advice that should help you to work through your feelings and arm you with information to help decide what's right for you and how you might go about fixing your marriage. It's not a "5 steps to win back your husband" kind of book nor does it tell you that "you must get divorced" or that "you must stay married".
I am going to forward it on to my parents."
~ Written on 2005-08-20
It's a great book, with clear, concise chapters covering a range of issues including types of infidelity and the motivations behind them, ways to deal with the emotional fallout, and ways to move forward. It provides practical, non-judgmental, evidence-based advice that should help you to work through your feelings and arm you with information to help decide what's right for you and how you might go about fixing your marriage. It's not a "5 steps to win back your husband" kind of book nor does it tell you that "you must get divorced" or that "you must stay married".
I am going to forward it on to my parents."
~ Written on 2005-08-20