Pretending to Be Normal: Living With Asperger's Syndrome

"I really enjoyed Liane's story - it gave me hope that my Aspie daughter (and son) will grow up to have fulfilling lives."
~ Written on 2008-07-24

" Liane Holliday Wiley's Pretending to be Normal: Living With Asperger's Syndrome is a very insightful look into the condition, from someone who has it herself. Wiley provides entertaining, and at times heartbreaking, anecdotes of her life, as she grew up not knowing she had Asperger's, but knowing she was different in some way. The advantage of reading a book like this is that it is written by someone who has the condition, albeit undiagnosed, so it provides better insight on the condition than a parent or professional, who doesn't have the condition himself or herself. On the other hand, as another poster has stated, Wiley seems to go back and forth between accepting her Asperger's as the way she is, and saying she's better now that "her Asperger's traits continue to fade away", yet admittedly, that is how many "Aspies" feel. Bottom line: I would recommend this book, but keep in mind that it's not perfect. Especially useful for Aspies or friends and loved ones of Aspies, and anyone who wants to learn more about Asperger's Syndrome."
~ Written on 2008-07-18

"Pretending to Be Normal: Living With Asperger's Syndrome
This book is must read for anyone dealing with Asperger's children, teens and young adults. L. Wiley's insights into her own responses and feelings enables a better understanding of the behaviors we see, and also insight into some of our goals, that may not be shared by those with whom we are working."
~ Written on 2008-02-24

"I have now read several books by adults with autism or aspergers. This is a good book to read if you want a better understanding of the autism spectrum and how it plays out in children who otherwise appear "normal". The author describes very well what life was like for her in high school and college. She also writes about her marriage and some of the challenges in that. I believe that this is the first book I have read that goes into that type of depth of close relationships. At the end of the book she has chapters such as organizing your home life, employment options and survival skills for college students. I will probably read those chapters again and in more depth when my son is older. I think that many of the suggestions would be helpful to someone on the AS. "
~ Written on 2007-11-17

"An unbelievable book. I laughed, I cried...
I learned more about my son, I learned more about myself. "
~ Written on 2007-10-29